Showing posts with label life lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life lessons. Show all posts

Sunday, 13 May 2012

MOTHER'S DAY SPECIAL: A MOTHER'S TEAR



"Why are you crying?" he asked his mom. "Because I'm a mother" she told him. "I don't understand," he said. His mom just hugged him to her and said, "You never will."

Later the little boy asked his father why mother seemed to cry for no  reason. "All mothers cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why mothers cry. One night, he had a dream. In his dream, he called God on the telephone.  When God came to the phone the man asked, "God, why do mothers cry so easily?"  God answered him, "My son, you see, when I made mothers, I knew they had to be special.  I made their shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.  I gave them an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times come from their children and mates. I gave them a hardiness that allows them to keep going when everyone else gives up, and to take care of their families through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave them the sensitivity to love their children under all circumstances, even when their child has hurt them very badly. This same sensitivity helps them to make a child's boo-boo feel better and helps them share a teenager's anxieties and fears. I gave them a tear to shed.  It's theirs, exclusively, to use whenever needed. It's their only weakness.  It is a tear for mankind."

MOM'S SURVIVAL TIPS

To my kids who have left home and are on their own, I pass on a list of life lessons:

1. Don't sweat your every mistake or faux pas. They make up for the things you got away with that nobody knows about.

2. Avoid marrying anyone who deliberately flushes the toilet when you're taking a shower.

3. When someone tells you that what he's about to say is "for your own good," expect the worst.

4. The value of a dog is its constant reminder of how much fun it is to be idiotic.

5. If you are lavishly praised, enjoy the taste but don't swallow it whole.

6. When a politician says, "Let me make something perfectly clear," remember that he usually won't.

7. Your children may leave home, but their stuff will be in your attic and basement forever.

8. If someone says, "I know what I mean, but I just can't put it into words," he doesn't know what he means.

9. Two people cannot operate a TV remote control in the same room at the same time.

10. Don't waste time trying to be your own best friend. You can't pat yourself on the back, and it's unsatisfying to cry on your own shoulder. Find a real friend instead!



                       The eagle recovers around a mark!

Friday, 11 May 2012

75 INSPIRING MOTHER'S DAY QUOTES


 
Mother's Day is just a couple of days away. Here are 75 inspiring quotes that you'd like to share with friends and family members - especially that special person: Mother!

A mother is not a person to lean on, but a person to make leaning unnecessary || Dorothy Canfield Fisher

Mothers hold their children’s hands for a short while, but their hearts forever || Unknown

Men are what their mothers made them || Ralph Waldo Emerson

The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness || Honore de Balzac

Making a decision to have a child–it’s momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body || Elizabeth Stone

A mother is a person who, seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie || Tenneva Jordan

All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That’s his || Oscar Wilde

All mothers are working mothers || Unknown

It kills you to see them grow up. But I guess it would kill you quicker if they didn’t || Barbara Kingsolver

Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs… since the payment is pure love || Mildred B. Vermont

When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child || Sophia Loren

I regard no man as poor who has a godly mother || Abraham Lincoln

…the hand that rocks the cradle – Is the hand that rules the world || William Ross Wallace

An ounce of mother is worth a ton of priest || Spanish Proverb

A suburban mother’s role is to deliver children obstetrically once, and by car forever after || Peter de Vries

A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest ||  Irish Proverb

Whatever else is unsure in this stinking dunghill of a world a mother’s love is not || James Joyce

To a child’s ear, ‘mother’ is magic in any language || Arlene Benedict

To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its perfect power || Maya Angelou

No matter how old a mother is, she watches her middle-aged children for signs of improvement || Florida Scott-Maxwell

Sweater, n.: garment worn by child when its mother is feeling chilly || Ambrose Bierce

A man’s work is from sun to sun, but a mother’s work is never done || Unknown

You don’t really understand human nature unless you know why a child on a merry-go-round will wave at his parents every time around – and why his parents will always wave back || William D. Tammeus

Children are a great comfort in your old age – and they help you reach it faster, too || Lionel Kauffman

It takes a woman twenty years to make a man of her son, and another woman twenty minutes to make a fool of him || Helen Rowland

The most remarkable thing about my mother is that for thirty years she served the family nothing but leftovers. The original meal has never been found || Calvin Trillin

If you bungle raising your children, I don't think whatever else you do well matters very much || Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis

Never marry a man who hates his mother, because he'll end up hating you || Jill Bennett

A mother is not a person to lean on, but a person to make leaning unnecessary || Dorothy Canfield Fisher

At work, you think of the children you have left at home.
At home, you think of the work you've left unfinished. Such a struggle is unleashed within yourself. Your heart is rent || Golda Meir

Mothers hold their children's hands for a short while, but their hearts forever || Unknown

As is the mother, so is her daughter || Ezekiel 16:4

Men are what their mothers made them || Ralph Waldo Emerson

Most mothers are instinctive philosophers || Harriet Beecher Stowe

We never know the love of the parent until we become parents ourselves || Henry Ward Beecher

The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness ||  de Balzac, author

The mother's heart is the child's schoolroom || Henry Ward Beecher, US Congressional clergyman

Who is getting more pleasure from this rocking, the baby or me? || Nancy Thayer, author

By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class || Anne Morrow Lindbergh, author

Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother || Lin Yutang, Chinese writer

Mama exhorted her children at every opportunity to 'jump at de sun.' We might not land on the sun, but at least we would get off the ground || Zora Neale Hurston, folklorist and writer

That best academy, a mother's knee || James Russell Lowell, poet, critic and diplomat

Making a decision to have a child--it's momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body || Elizabeth Stone

Anyone who doesn't miss the past never had a mother || Gregory Nunn

A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie || Tenneva Jordan

Few misfortunes can befall a boy which brings worse consequences than to have a really affectionate mother || W. Somerset Maugham

The lullaby is the spell whereby the mother attempts to transform herself back from an ogre to a saint || James Fenton

No matter how old a mother is, she watches her middle-aged children for signs of improvement || Florida Scott-Maxwell

Biological possibility and desire are not the same as biological need. Women have childbearing equipment. For them to choose not to use the equipment is no more blocking what is instinctive than it is for a man who, muscles or no, chooses not to be a weightlifter || Betty Rollin

Women do not have to sacrifice personhood if they are mothers. They do not have to sacrifice motherhood in order to be persons. Liberation was meant to expand women's opportunities, not to limit them. The self-esteem that has been found in new pursuits can also be found in mothering || Elaine Heffner

Whatever else is unsure in this stinking dunghill of a world a mother's love is not || James Joyce

All that remains to the mother in modern consumer society is the role of scapegoat; psychoanalysis uses huge amounts of money and time to persuade analysis and to foist their problems on to the absent mother, who has no opportunity to utter a word in her own defense. Hostility to the mother in our societies is an index of mental health || Germaine Greer

Woman in the home has not yet lost her dignity, in spite of Mother's Day, with its offensive implication that our love needs an annual nudging, like our enthusiasm for the battle of Bunker Hill || John Erskine

 All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That's his || Oscar Wilde

The moment a child is born, the mother is also born.
She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.

The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother || Unknown

A suburban mother's role is to deliver children obstetrically once, and by car forever after || Peter De Vries

All mothers are working mothers || Unknown

The real religion of the world comes from women much more than from men - from mothers most of all, who carry the key of our souls in their bosoms || Oliver Wendell Holmes

Motherhood is priced; Of God, at price no man may dare/To lessen or misunderstand || Helen Hunt Jackson

It kills you to see them grow up. But I guess it would kill you quicker if they didn't || Barbara Kingsolver

God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers || Jewish Proverb

I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life || Abraham Lincoln

Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs... since the payment is pure love || Mildred B. Vermont

Nobody knows of the work it makes
To keep the home together.
Nobody knows of the steps it takes,
Nobody knows-but Mother.
|| Anonymous

If the whole world were put into one scale, and my mother in the other, the whole world would kick the beam || Henry Bickersteth

Mother - that was the bank where we deposited all our hurts and worries || T. DeWitt Talmage


There is only one pretty child in the world, and every mother has it || Chinese Proverb

When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child || Sophia Loren, Women and Beauty

No gift to your mother can ever equal her gift to you – life || Anonymous

An ounce of mother is worth a ton of priest ||  Spanish Proverb

Mothers are fonder than fathers of their children because they are more certain they are their own || Aristotle
 
If nature had arranged that husbands and wives should have children alternatively, there would never be more than three in a family || Lawrence Housman

Insanity is hereditary; you get it from your children || Sam Levenson

Setting a good example for your children takes all the fun out of middle age || William Feather, The Business of Life, 1949

And remember that behind every successful woman......is a basket of dirty laundry || Unknown

Monday, 7 May 2012

A STORY OF REGRET


The mall was over-crowded, shoppers rushed from store to store
Nobody paid attention as she crouched there on the floor.

She didn't look in trouble and she didn't seem afraid
Apparently she stopped to rest, she did not need my aid.

A little girl of 8 or 9 and cute as she could be
I wondered, should I stop and ask if she needs help from me?

I wondered if her mother had just left her there alone
I thought, as I walked by her, in my haste to get back home.

As I left the mall I could not get her off my mind
Did that little girl need help? Was I just acting blind?

It bothered me so much, I had to go back in the mall
I have to get this settled in my mind once and for all.

The mall began to close, I heard some chain doors coming down
But as I looked the little girl was no where to be found.

Is it my imagination that again is running wild
Thinking I had lost my chance to help this poor lost child.

I guess she must be fine or she would still be sitting here
I get way too emotional at Christmas time each year.

I had to leave and get back home where it is safe and warm
The weather forecast for that night -- a chilling winter storm.

Late that night it happened as the weather station said
Frigid cold and heavy snow while I was snug in bed.

In the morning I awoke to winter's nasty caper
The only place I'd go that day was out to get the paper.

Cozy in my kitchen with my news and cup of tea.
But as I saw the front page, it just devasted me.

On the front page down below, a little headline read
"At the local shopping mall a little girl found dead".

It was 4 A.M. this morning when police received the call.
The caller said "A little girl was dead behind the mall".

It was the chilling elements that brought her close to death
As she lay down she fell asleep and breathed her final breath.

I could not read the rest of it as I began to weep.
While I slept safe a little girl had frozen in her sleep.

Many years have passed me now, but it still haunts my dreams
Was the little girl they found the same one I had seen?

I can't forget that little girl no matter how I try.
But now when someone seems in need I never pass them by.

The lesson I have learned from this was difficult but true.
The last chance that someone may have could very well be you.

Sunday, 6 May 2012

THE WOODEN BOWL

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.

The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. "We must do something about Grandfather," said the son. "I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor". So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed their dinners together.

Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.

The four-year-old watched it all in silence. One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?" Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when you get old." The four year old smiled and went back to work.

The words so struck the parents that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done. That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.